Before the first date, ask the real questions.

KnowU is a custom getting-to-know-you survey you build in minutes. Send a private link to someone you're dating, getting serious with, or just want to know better — and watch their honest answers come back to you.

How it works

1. Build it
Start from a thoughtful 58-question template or write your own. Mix short-answer, multiple choice, 1–10 scales, and quick either/or picks.
2. Send it
You get one link to send to whoever you want to answer it, and a separate private link just for you to see the results. No accounts, no logins.
3. Get to know them
Their answers land on your private results page as they come in — nobody else can see them.

What people actually ask

Early bird or night owl? What's your relationship with money? How do you handle disagreements? What's your biggest fear? What are your dealbreakers in a partner? — the starter template has 58 questions like these, grouped into sections on lifestyle, values, your inner world, relationships, and a few fast, fun either/or picks.

Every survey lives behind its own private link. Responses are visible only to the person holding that survey's results link — results pages are never indexed by search engines and aren't browsable from anywhere else on the site.